FEMININE MALE

 A female is a sex distinguished by the production of gamete (ova) which can be fertilised by male gamete (sperm). A female is a he that can produce egg and bear offsprings.

I grew up in a society where the feminine genders are expected to grow up to a fixed characteristics like being in the kitchen, playing with dolls, cleaning the house, crying as an expression of wants or hurt and so on.

 While a male child is expected to play rough, look dirty and climb trees, a female child is believed to have stepped out of boundaries in the aspect of sex when she exhibit any of the male characteristics like wearing jean and shirt or having her hair cut. 

The society is quick to judge or criticize such female to be a tomboy. I wonder why being the real you, feeling complete and liking what you wear becomes a subject of criticism. 

Femininity shouldn't be defined by what one wear but who one chooses to be.There is more to being a female than being plain, obedient, sexually available and constantly blamed for the ills of the society. 

Feminityhas gone beyond marriage and rearing children. Gone are the days when the place of a woman is in the kitchen. You shouldn't end up as a docile caterers to the caprices of men because you are a female.

 Feminity shouldn't limit your ability or place boundaries to what or who you want to become in life. You  being a female doesn't stop you from choosing your own career, working where you want or being the real you. You can be all you want to be irrespective of your sex. 

Your personality can still shine in how you chooses to exhibit your feminine qualities. You should develop a very strong sense of self without allowing people's ignorance change you.The value people place on you is no sign of God's estimation of your worth. 

Being a female doesn't mean your life should be censored by another homosapien . You shouldn't be define by other people's opinion.

A willing heart and a capable God is all it takes for you to reach the stars. Feminity is no barrier nor obstacle. It is our greatest charm that should be celebrated and exhibited in the best form we are comfortable in.

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